Category Archives: Family Life

Jul
6
2013

That Kind of Hug

The little girl was shaking from her head down to her toes.
She had to get a running start; she didn’t have far to go.
Waiting for the loving arms she hadn’t felt in quite a while.
Waiting for her Daddy, with his kind eyes and his smile.

Her Daddy in his uniform; he’d been wearing all along.
Her Daddy stood so straight and tall; her Daddy was so strong.
She talked to him with Mommy, through the computer screen.
But now he would be next to her; now he would be seen.

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Jul
1
2013

The Ruckus

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The beach.
Tranquility, sand, salt water, ocean waves.

I walk each morning on vacation just like I walk at home.
I find that I am walking more for stillness and less for exercise.

I have my favorite spots…more for my eyes to see and my heart to ponder.
Places that are a respite…places that delay my going home.
One such spot overlooks the Sound.

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Jun
10
2013

The Silent Cry

I enjoy family conversations around the table.
They are engaging as we banter back and forth about anything and everything.
Sometimes it is nice to just sit back and listen.

Recently, we talked about dreams and the recurring themes that seem to prevail.
Getting lost; being chased by someone, and being unable to run away.
We all experienced the dream of being frightened and the scream just wouldn’t come.

Mouth open…but no sound comes out.
Frightening.
No one hears your cry for help.

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Jun
3
2013

Showing Up

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The room was filled with parents.
Metal folding chairs were set up in the back of the room to accommodate them.
It was a day of presentations…each child giving their report.

I watched as the children saw their mom or dad come through the door.
An enormous wave…a smile…pointing so their friend could see who belonged to them.
The parent equally proud…waving back…too grown up to point.

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May
13
2013

Shoes on the Back Stairs

We have back stairs in our house.
I don’t know how it began, but my children all kept their shoes there.
One pair of shoes to a step.
Even when they are away…and come home…they put their shoes in their spot.

I like to see their shoes on the back stairs.
If the shoes are on the stairs, then the person they belong to is home!
There is something so right about that.
Home for a weekend…home for a week…home for the summer…home!

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May
11
2013

The Right Knees

I saw her pirouetting around the room.
Obviously trying to pass the time while her mom was shopping.
I almost envied her abandon.

She was wearing a twirly skirt, which she obviously loved to wear as she danced.
She had rain boots on her feet…not the ballet slippers I would have imagined.
She was carefree…not yet affected by the whims of the world.

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May
7
2013

Only God

I pass the corner almost every day.
It was formerly a gas station with a small store to pay for your fill-up.
It has been closed for years.
Many people got their cars repaired and their state inspections done there.

An abandoned corner…literally across the road from the Brandywine River.
In this rural Chester County setting, cyclists and drivers share the road.
Fisherman catch what they can from the river, once the fishing season begins.

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Apr
15
2013

The Centenarian

Our pastor said that we had a special guest in the congregation.
From the back of the church, an older gentleman pushed a woman in a wheel chair.
There she was, beautiful corsage pinned to her dress…a twinkle in her eye.

Today, we celebrate Mildred.
She will be 100 years old tomorrow!
There was a audible catching of breath and then as if on cue, everyone stood up for her.

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Apr
5
2013

Caught and Taught

A young mother came to visit with her three daughters.
What a lovely morning.
I promised that I would get out our dollhouse and all the accessories.
What memories came flooding back as I watched her little girls play.

They played with the dollhouse and all of the pieces for hours.
Their mom and I sat in my kitchen having tea.
She held her precious eight week old daughter in her arms.

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Apr
4
2013

Tossed Overboard

I overheard the mothers talking as they edged their shopping carts towards one another.
Are you anxious to send them back?
I sure am…I can’t imagine the summer when they’re home all the time…

I assumed “they” were the little children at their feet.
I assumed “send them back” meant to pre-school and kindergarten.
It made me sad.

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